On Your Own Terms
Taking Charge of Aging in Place
Most older adults want to remain in charge of where and how they live. This book is for them.
Written by a 78-year-old retired software engineer who is aging in place himself—right now, with the same knees and the same stakes as his readers—On Your Own Terms is a practical guide to making the home you have work better, weighing a move without panic, and adapting deliberately as needs change.
Across thirteen chapters, it replaces vague worry, family pressure, and gadget-driven advice with practical decisions you can make on your own terms: preventing falls, improving home safety, protecting your money and privacy, organizing your health information, building reliable help, using technology wisely, and recognizing when staying put no longer works.
“Your decisions about your home and your life should be informed, deliberate, and yours.”